Letting Go

Ahhhh, one of the toughest things of the teenager's life. A time when we explore intimacy and learn what type of girl would work best with us as adults and such. Especially tough when we meet our first love who we really feel like is the one and we wake up every morning smiling because someone out there that does not have to unconditionally love us actually loves us. We feel stable and our chest gets to stick out a little and we get a little hair on our chest(figures of speech ladies, lol). There's completion where there wasn't before. Then we get ahead of ourselves and our guard is let down. Ignorance is the worst thing in life, it leads to becoming naive and in the end an idealist. And then we lose them. They controlled our emotions and our moods and now it feels as if the world doesn't spin without her. We, no our body and mind, wants that feeling back where it cannot be anymore. The relationship has to evolve just like nature. The relationship adapts for survival.... survival. The whole point of our existence is to survive and evolve as people, beings, into purity. Thus, feelings have to change and we HAVE to change with them. The hardest part is in the wake of a break-up where there is the period of wonder. Do I call or talk to her? Do I make eye contact, which is especially hard if i go to school with the girl? Decisions, decisions.... all part of growing up. I cannot tell you yes or no. I do not your specific relationship. You have to decide. The thing is though, is that if you truly love this person, then make the decision that will cause the least stress and also give yourself a chance later in life to be with that person when the circumstances have changed perhaps. We're young so there's no point in becoming bitter of depressed because there really is hella fish in the sea.

How To Get Over Her

• Hang Out With Single Friends
• Find A Hobby That Gives You More Joy Than Her(Yes It's Out There)
• Do Not Feel Sorry For Yourself And Get Out Of The House
  
• Get A New Girl But Do Not Look For Love Immediately But Friendship
• Listen To Her And Figure Why It Didn't Work