Force

You can not force love upon someone. It's virtually impossible to manipulate another's mind into feeling something that is meant to be organic. I guess that's why nutritionists advise us to not eat anything with any type of artificial flavoring or coloring. The taste isn't natural and the covering is just smoke and mirrors hiding what's truly there and the same goes for love. Force is energy exerted upon an object. Most of the time, the force we feel is a result of two forces that are not equal and therefore unbalanced. Here's your answer to, "When am I going to use fractions in real life?" When force is applied to love, then it's not love anymore. In the dictionary, love is defined as a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. My definition is a feeling where you and another become one mentally, physically and spiritually one person. Keyword is "become." Love grows on you, it's not just developed over night, thus cannot be forced. But what about love at first sight. I feel, like many other things in life is, that it is just another phenomenon where Lady Luck was on your side. But even there, the love starts off as a strong physical attraction where you could see yourself growing old with that person. If love at first sight was true, meaning no loophole or under any special circumstances like the sun will rise and the sun will set, then people would fall in love left and right. When you believe you love the person you have just saw, subconsciously you picture yourself smiling and feeling happy. You automatically give your "lover" certain characteristics that fit with yours. However, your "lover" turns out to be somebody else and you have just experienced artificial love. A love where one person ideally fantasizes about another, who may not always feel the same way. In the end the person most eager ends up hurt from his or her own "force."